JUST GET MOVING
The year was 1976, and as a 7th grader my dad took me to see a new movie that had just come out.. Rocky. The story of an boxer who was given the chance of a lifetime to fight the world champion. The movie was a great story and inspirational. The morning after watching the movie, I joined boys around the world by starting the day drinking 5 raw eggs, just like Rocky did.
This past week, my wife and I had about 3 hours in the city of Philadelphia. We were there at 6:00am on a Sunday Morning, so we had to settle with a drive by of the Liberty Bell and some of the sights in the city, but we did get to see the iconic Rocky statue.
There are a couple of scenes in the movie that show Rocky training. In an early scene, he's working hard, he's barely able to make it up the steps in the city, but later in the movie, after his training, he's ready, and we see him run up the steps anticipating the fight.
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VISUAL PRIORITIES AND WHITE BOARDS
I heard from one of our readers and a friend of mine this past week that by putting a white board in her office, it has helped her with her tasks, goals and her to-do list. Thank you Linda for your comments.
This got me thinking about the power of putting your lists, goals and action items in front of you as a way to remind you, to inspire you and to keep you focused.
Many of you know my love of technology. I try to keep up with the best apps, I take advantage of multiple devices, and am always looking for electronic tools that increase productivity and effectiveness.
However, many of you also know of my love of white boards. I couldn't survive without a large, white surface to write, think, dream, erase and plan. My office at one time had an entire wall of white boards on it, and now I have a couple that serve me well. I even have a small one that fits in my carry-on bag that I can carry with me and use with a one-to-one meeting with someone. I know, a little obsessive.
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PRIORITIES
This morning I had coffee with a friend that shared with me the importance of his "to-do list". He uses a blend of paper and electronics to determine what he does each day, and he shared how good he feels when he gets through that list each day.
Last week I listened to a podcast of Gary Keller (The One Thing/Keller-Williams) and he talked about his "to-do list" and how important is was for him to define that list and work it each day.
Today I want to share how I manage mine:
I use my computer and phone to take notes of things that I need to do, then I bring it together with my calendar.
I use an Action Planner Pad from NeuYear to write out my daily plan.
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#4) PRIORITIES: Learning to Say No
Let's wrap up these 4 conversations. Today is simple:
Instead of reading a post by me on PRIORITIES, why don't you get away from your computer and do something SIGNIFICANT:
- Serve Someone
- Show Love to Someone
- Take a Long Walk and Enjoy the Day
- Lay on Your Couch And Read Fiction
- Enjoy Your Family
- Take a Nap
- I could go on and on...
Next week I'll dive into PRIORITIES as we launch into a New Year!
Today, turn it off and do something that will make a difference in your life or the lives of those you care about.
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I'd like to spend the next few weeks sharing some things I've learned over the past year and encouraging you to consider engaging with me as we prepare for a New Year! Each of these things has implications for both our personal lives as well as our professional lives. Here are the 4 conversations:
December 10th: RHYTHM: The Pace of Life
December 17th: IMPACT: Measuring the Results
December 24th: HEALTH: The Power of Your Body
December 31st: PRIORITIES: Learning to Say No
Let's continue....
#3) HEALTH: The Power of Your Body
Bad timing! It's the week of Christmas Week and I'm talking about health! Part of every Christmas Celebration is all of the food tradition that we enjoy with our friends and family. I'm not going to tell you to stop eating. I simply want to share some things I've learned this year.
I've been on a "health quest" all year. I began the year by working hard and losing 25 pounds of weight. I spent time at a gym with a trainer, I worked on my morning routine which incorporated some new stretching. I've worked hard to balance my sleep, my movement each day and have felt pretty good.
I then hit a 2-month stretch of time that had me making 4 trips on 4 different continents (South Africa, Philippines, Ecuador, and the USA). I fought jet-lag, I didn't eat the way I knew I should, my exercise routine got messed up and I pretty much gave up and ignored the things I had learned throughout the year around my health.
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I'd like to spend the next few weeks sharing some things I've learned over the past year and encouraging you to consider engaging with me as we prepare for a New Year! Each of these things has implications for both our personal lives as well as our professional lives. Here are the 4 conversations:
December 10th: RHYTHM: The Pace of Life
December 17th: IMPACT: Measuring the Results
December 24th: HEALTH: The Power of Your Body
December 31st: PRIORITIES: Learning to Say No
Let's continue....
#2) IMPACT: Measuring the Results
I had an interesting experience this past year when I was invited to attend a Venture Capitalist event, and I was able to listen to a number of business leaders pitch opportunities that were being offered to potential investors. I was intrigued with the simplicity of the presentations, but was then blown away by the "PROOF" that was shared when they got to numbers.
The investors were asking really clear questions about outcomes, about impact, about growth, about challenges, and I saw and heard each of these business leaders answer their questions with clear data and full knowledge and understanding. They were prepared for these questions.
I've been working in the non-profit world for so long, and I think I've just gotten lazy when it comes to measuring impact. I know there is significant impact and great results, but I don't take the time to capture it, communicate it and learn from it.
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I'd like to spend the next few weeks sharing some things I've learned over the past year and encouraging you to consider engaging with me as we prepare for a New Year! Each of these things has implications for both our personal lives as well as our professional lives. Here are the 4 conversations:
December 10th: RHYTHM: The Pace of Life
December 17th: IMPACT: Measuring the Results
December 24th: HEALTH: The Power of Your Body
December 31st: PRIORITIES: Learning to Say No
Let's begin...
#1) RHYTHM: The Pace of Life
This past May I shared with you an experience I had in the mountains of Colorado with The Rogue Journey. This was the first part of a 2-session retreat that centered on creating space and rhythm in my life to connect to God in new ways. It was an incredible experience, and I was challenged during these days to really evaluate the RHYTHM of my life.
One of the ongoing conversations I've had with Gina (my wife) over the past 32 years has gone something like this.... "Gina, when I get through this season, things will calm down!".
I don't know if you've ever said this, but we learned early in our marriage and work that when one season ends, another begins. It never calms down. There's always something important to do, a project to complete or an ever-growing to-do list to manage.
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It's Tuesday at 2:00pm! (PST Time: I live and work from Southern California)
This past week I talked about the 4 Needs of Leaders and shared a little of my story in identifying these things. You can read it HERE.
Today I want to share some things that are important to remember when you build a Coaching Community.
In the year 2000, I had the opportunity to invite a group of leaders from Latin America to gather together in Ecuador. We were all working at the time in different aspects of Youth Ministry, but we weren't connected together in any way. We invited this group of leaders to come to Quito, and we spent 3 days together. The goal was to find ways to work together and build collaborative partnership.
This happened, but we also built significant friendships with this group, we shared our lives, we shared our struggles, we learned from each other, and we supported each other.
When this group left, I remember feeling blown away by the intimacy, the vulnerability, the support, the laughter and the new friendship. It just happened. We all needed that kind of community, and we all worked to create it.
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