LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Your time is limited so don't waste it living somebody else's life." Steve Jobs

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I was researching this quote, and found a commentary where someone made this statement as to what Jobs might have meant when he said this:

"Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition."

I love this insight into the quote, and I'm sure Jobs had some other thoughts on this.

What about you?

What does it mean to you, "Don't waste it living somebody else's life."

We all end up doing things that we don't want to be doing. Part of that is work, part of that is personal time control. What would be a WASTE to you?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Humans are not driven by the past, we're pulled forward by the future we're most committed to." Dr. Benjamin Hardy

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I heard someone speak about vision this past week and he did a great job of framing the timeline of vision by looking at where they had come from, and painting a compelling vision of where they were going.

This quote from Dr. Benjamin Hardy reminds us that we are PULLED FORWARD by the vision that we are working towards.

Have you ever been PULLED by something or the idea of something?

In LifePlanning, there is a tool where we stop what we're doing and we create an image of what life will be like in 10 years. I have clients write simple descriptive statements about what they will be doing in 10 years in different domains of their life.

We're creating a picture of the future, of the future we are being called to, the future we are wanting to create.

Paint yourself a picture. Choose one domain: Personal, Family, Vocation, Community or Faith: What will this look like in your life in 10 years? What do you see?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Never give up on something that you can't go a day without thinking about." Winston Churchill

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I'm diving into some great quotes from some famous authors of the past, and I've had a handful just jump out at me. Take a look at the past 3 quotes HERE, and today I rediscovered this quote from Winston Churchill.

I love this quote from Churchill. It's a CHARGE and a CHALLENGE to keep going and to not give up. A number of times he used words like: "We will never give in" or "We shall never surrender". Sometimes he even repeated the words.... never, never, never to make a point.

So here he is simply telling us to not give up on something that we are spending a lot of time and energy focused on.

What is the first thing that comes to your mind? What are you thinking about everyday?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Everyone is a moon and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody." Mark Twain

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I'm diving into some great quotes from some famous authors of the past, and I've had a handful just jump out at me. Take a look at the past 3 quotes HERE, and today I discovered this quote from Mark Twain.

Twain was simply making an observation about people when he compared them to the moon: We can never see the full moon, or both sides of the moon, and people are like this. Often people just want us to see their "good side" or the "sunny side", but the reality is that everyone has a "dark side" or better said, a "hidden side".

When we say DARK it sounds so mysterious and maybe evil. That might be the case, but I think Twain was simply saying that there are things that we never show to other people, we keep some things hidden. He doesn't say this is bad, but is simply making an observation.

What do you think he is saying?

Do you agree that everyone has a side of their lives that they keep hidden?

What about you? Are there things in your life that you don't want anyone else to see?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Life is a journey, not a destination."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I'm diving into some great quotes from some famous authors of the past, and I've had a handful just jump out at me. Take a look at the past 2 quotes HERE, but today, Emersons quote just resonated.

Sometimes I am so focused on goals, plans, being strategic and getting stuff done that I forget that getting the list all checked off isn't always the most important thing. It's important, and I will continue to encourage people to "get stuff done", however when I only focus on my lists, I have the tendency to forget about what is going on around me. I'm so focused on getting the tasks done, that I miss opportunity for conversation, for deeper relationship and for enjoying where I'm at.

The quote reminds us that there is a balance between DOING and BEING, between CONTROLLING and LETTING GO, between PEACE and PURSUIT.

If you're like me, you miss some of the most important things.

Remember, it's a JOURNEY and the destination is important, but it's not the only thing.

Think about some of the things you might be missing because you're so focused on GETTING THERE that you're missing the experience of the JOURNEY?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Not all those who wander are lost." J.R.R. Tolkien

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

After last weeks quote from Shel Silverstein, I starting thinking about what some of my other favorite authors have said, and this one line, pulled from a longer quote from Tolkien is a great thought.

We tend to value production over experience. When we think of the word "wander" we assume it's because someone doesn't have anyplace to go, or I might use it as an excuse for being lost.

We don't value the idea of "wandering around" because this appears to meaningless.

The reality is that sometimes in our wandering, that's when we find something of value or importance. We find something that we would have missed had we been on an uninterrupted journey.

When was the last time you just "wandered" around? This can mean taking your time from point A to point B, or it can be wandering around without a destination? Can you remember?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Never explain what you do. It speaks for itself. You only muddle it by talking about it." Shel Silverstein

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Sometimes when I'm reading, I come across something that just causes me to STOP. It usually surprises me, and forces me to read it again.

Sometimes when I'm listening to a book or a podcast I STOP. I take a moment to listen to it again, or I write something down that was triggered.

The Silverstein quote above has just caused me to STOP and think about it. I'm trying to figure out what this looks like for me and my life.

Read the quote again. What is it saying to you? What is it causing you to contemplate?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Never underestimate the power of an encouraging word." John C Maxwell

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Last week I shared some words that were given to me from my dying uncle, words that really encouraged me and I simply mentioned how important words are. I received some great notes and comments, as well as notes of condolence and encouragement from many of you. Thank you for sharing those notes.

WORDS.

Maxwell said it above, "Never Underestimate...." but I often do. I let things fly out of my mouth without thinking, or I hold my thoughts in my head when I should be sharing something. It's a constant battle to use my words wisely, whether it's spoken or written words.

Here's some homework: This week, find ONE person to speak some encouraging words to, and do it! How did you feel? How did they respond? Be intentional with ONE.